My husband of 7 1/2 years, Im 26, he's 29, never asks to go out with just the guys, other than a drink or two after work. I do the same with my friends from work. If either of us goes out to clubs it's always together. I trust him fully and believe he trusts me too. We've never done anything to hurt each other in any way. His friends wife is controlling, she usually never lets him out of her sight. But she went to a bachloret party with strippers, and now he feels he should be able to go to a strip club too. Well she let him go, as long as my husband went (the good guy). His friend called me personally and asked me if it was ok with me. I said sure. Honestly we watch crazier things on TV than in any strip club. I'm not worried about my husband.
But I have friends who refuse to let their husbands go. And they say I am crazy for allowing it. Am I wrong? Should I be jealous? I know I make him happy and our sex life is amazing. And why do wives feel they are in charge of where their husbands go or do? Shouldn't marriage be about trust? I know many of these woman do whatever they want. I work in a mostly male enviroment- it has a bad reputation for any woman who morks there. They usually have affairs their firswt year there. Includung the women I work with.....so who are they to judge their husbands?
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December 3, 2009 at 9:45 pm by Anonymous in - Sex [+]
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December 3, 2009 at 9:45 pm by Anonymous in - Sex [+]
Is it wrong for some of these folks to not give two cents about being grammatically correct on their posts? I can understand that this is not an essay or thesis (Im not a Harvard English Professor), but geez.
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December 2, 2009 at 11:05 pm by Anonymous in - Miscellaneous [+]
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December 2, 2009 at 11:05 pm by Anonymous in - Miscellaneous [+]
My Dad... When i was little i never knew he was takeing me to bars. But now i do. He is a drunk. He always makes empty promises. It used to break my heart but now i am used to it. But my 9 year old brother doesnt understand. I hate my father. And i feel horrible when my mom goes out ( which is only once a year really) and My dad is bombed...and takes my brother out driving. I cried.... and cried and now i hate him. Sometimes i wish he would crash... maybe he'd learn his lesson. Am i wrong for thinking this way?
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November 27, 2009 at 8:26 pm by Anonymous in - Family [+]
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November 27, 2009 at 8:26 pm by Anonymous in - Family [+]
Ive been head over heals in love with my boyfriend for 3 years. We sleep together everynight (we live apart), and sometimes in the middle of the night or early morning i will wake up with an intense puppy love feeling and I get the urge to ask my bf to marry me.
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November 27, 2009 at 10:35 am by Anonymous in - Love [+]
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November 27, 2009 at 10:35 am by Anonymous in - Love [+]
I've been married less than a year to my husband. In that time I have discovered he lied about watching porn when I was away, talking to his ex since we've lived together (claims he can't remember, but I have the phone records showing 1(lengthy) call) and most importantly that he has illegitimate kids by 2 other women that he told me were his brother's kids. Now I'm suspicious about a ton of other stuff, and always on him about it. Am I wrong to not let it all go?
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November 25, 2009 at 3:14 pm by Anonymous in - Relationships [+]
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November 25, 2009 at 3:14 pm by Anonymous in - Relationships [+]
Ok I've like guy number one for about 7 years but he never wanted to be in a relationship with me or anybody but we are still cool well I started dating guy number 2 recently and I didn't know both guys were friends now whenever we go out guy 1 and2 are always there I like guy 1 more and my feeling for him are stating to come back the more we hang out should I tell him how I truly feel even though I'm still dating his friend???
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November 24, 2009 at 3:21 pm by Anonymous in - Love [+]
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November 24, 2009 at 3:21 pm by Anonymous in - Love [+]
Today I was driving across the state when I suddenly got the impulse to eat a ham sandwich. I normally don't eat ham because I'm Jewish, am I wrong?
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November 22, 2009 at 3:32 am by Anonymous in - Family [+]
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November 22, 2009 at 3:32 am by Anonymous in - Family [+]
There's a guy I've had feelings for, for about a year now. My close friend has know about it and did not express an interest in him. I didn't act on my feelings because he was taken but he recently became single and asked her out. She accepted so I am no longer speaking to her. Am I wrong?
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November 13, 2009 at 2:46 am by Anonymous in - Friends [+]
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November 13, 2009 at 2:46 am by Anonymous in - Friends [+]
I recently broke up with my boyfriend for 3 years.... The reson why I broke up with him is because he is 29 and has not worked a day in his life! I am 19 and already worked for 3 years! He tells me how he will be a millionaire one day but all I see is my credit card paying for Dennys! Am I wrong?
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November 12, 2009 at 8:23 pm by Anonymous in - Family [+]
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November 12, 2009 at 8:23 pm by Anonymous in - Family [+]
Ive been with my boyfriend for about a year, he lives 2 hours away and we see each other almost every weekend. I love him so much its ridiculous, but it may be undeserved. Our good times are great, no ones ever made me happier.. But our bad times are horrible, and no ones ever made me cry more. Through the course of our relationship hes been generally shady, Ive caught him talking to another girl who he promised he wouldnt talk to anymore because she was tryin to get with him, and I found tagged messages where he was flirting with another girl and set up a yahoo messenger convo so they could talk later (he swears they talked about me and she knew he was/is in a relationship, i dont believe that for a second).. Needless to say, Im insecure now.. We get into fights about the smallest things all the time because I just dont trust him much anymore. I got to the point recently where I couldnt take it anymore, I tried to break up with him. He convinced me to just take a break from the relationship because he didnt want to lose me, he was sorry for all the wrong he's done, and would try harder to make me happy and less insecure. I went with it because I really want things to be good again. We were talkin on the phone earlier and he was tellin me about his day, he said he texted me to tell me about something when he didnt, he had called me to tell me about it. I asked him if he had texted it to someone else, he said no and we moved on.. Later in the convo he said "why do I always gotta be textin someone else?" like i always accuse him of it.. I got defensive quick and started fussin about our past. He said he was just joking with me when he said it, because i guess we do joke like that, but it didnt feel like a joke when he said it. Either way, I dont think it was appropriate because of the situation... Was I wrong for gettin defensive? Please comment. I need advice and im sorry its long. =/
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November 9, 2009 at 10:13 pm by lime.coconut in - Relationships [+]
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November 9, 2009 at 10:13 pm by lime.coconut in - Relationships [+]
ok so i started talkin to this boy that liked me for the longest time but he just told me so for about a month were holdin hands flirting and all that good stuff but 1 day i see him with this group of friends and 1 girl so i went over and gave him a hug and said hi to all his friends and i start having a conversation with him mean while hes just laughin and every thing so he said he had to walk down the street i wasnt doin anythin so i said ill walk with him them him and this girl started laughin again so at this point i said forget it then him and the girl walked away SO ... am i wrong for being mad at him for just lettin me sit there lookin dumb or should i just get over it cuz we were never officially together pppppppppplllllllzzzzzzzzz tell me!!
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October 27, 2009 at 11:09 pm by Anonymous in - Relationships [+]
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October 27, 2009 at 11:09 pm by Anonymous in - Relationships [+]
This weekend I was outside of my house cleaning the yard and my neighbor hit on me when his wife was not home. I felt really uncomfortable and told my husband... Well my husband went over there when his wife came home and almost started WW3.... Am I wrong for starting this? I feel so horrible now because I think I destroyed their family. This mans wife is even pregnant!
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October 25, 2009 at 8:26 pm by Anonymous in - Family [+]
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October 25, 2009 at 8:26 pm by Anonymous in - Family [+]
I was bored one day and started going threw my girls phone. I find all these messages and pictures of guys naked on her phone and her sending them pictures of herself naked. Should I be mad at her or should I dump her sorry ass. Was I wrong for going threw her phone. Even though she was doing this when where broken up.
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October 23, 2009 at 11:26 pm by Anonymous in - Love [+]
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October 23, 2009 at 11:26 pm by Anonymous in - Love [+]
