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When I was 13, I dated a guy named Mike. He had that bad boy charm, and the looks. I completely fell for him which was so easy since I was so young. But over the course of 4 months, he broke up with me 9 times because of his constant cheating which was also 9 times and his excuse, 'comittment issues'. He really ruined me. I fell into a bad habit of doing drugs, drinking, harming myself, and just hating myself. Also, after him, I picked the absolute worst people to be with. Abusive, forceful, cheating guys and girls who had only made my situation worse. But now, it has been 3 and 1/2 years since I've kicked him and the others out of my life. I've been to rehab, and gotten better. I'm now successful, drug/alcohol/self abuse free and have found an amazing girl. Her and I have been dating for 4 months now, and our connection is strong. I feel like I really am in love with her, and that she feels the same. She's good for me, and has helped me more than anyone ever has. She understands what I've gone through and has helped me cope. I love her more than anything and do want to be with her. My problem is, recently, me and her went to a party and Mike was there. We didn't talk much. But now, my feelings for him have come back. I don't want my past to ruin what I have now. But I don't know how to get rid of the feelings I have for him again. Am I wrong for thinking of him when I'm with her? And comment for advice please. I need it :/

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January 18, 2010 at 3:34 pm by LaurenGrae in - Love [+]

I support Obama and everything he stands for....

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January 1, 2010 at 3:32 pm by Anonymous in - Family [+]

im the woman & my role is mother, i take care of our child 24/7. he's the man & his role is breadmaker, but is unemployed. i do not blame him for not being able to get employment right now (im in the same boat) what im upset about is that i do my "job" but he has none, so instead of helping out with our child, he does other stuff all day every day. when i try to get a little bit of help from him he doesnt even know how to handle his own child and doesnt see this as part his responsibility. he gets mad at me for it. everywhere i go our child goes with me, he simply walks out the door and i am stuck- its just expected of me. hes great when he is around but that doesnt say much. am i wrong to expect anything from him!

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December 26, 2009 at 4:41 pm by Anonymous in - Relationships [+]

Do I need a drink?

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December 25, 2009 at 9:16 am by Anonymous in - Miscellaneous [+]

Me n my ex girlfriend have been broken up a couple of months now... While we were togetha we used to have sex all the time until towards da end of our relationship. I asked ha y we weren n she said it had gotten boring to ha but it wasn always borin. while we were togetha i always thought she was cheatin on me especially towards da end of our relationship dats y i broke up wit ha. We still hung out n stuff but we weren't having sex. We lata got into a bad fight n i stopped talkn to ha. She later tried to call me 3 times ( i didn answa). N she even see's my friends somewhere n talks to dem about me. She tells dem how i am so bad at sex but yet she tells dem she could get any guy she wants n have sex with them but she doesn't n dat she's sex deprived... I miss ha though n da sex wit ha. Wat should i do?

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December 22, 2009 at 5:04 pm by Dporter in - Sex [+]

I have two friends-with-benefits at the same time. Am I wrong?

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December 19, 2009 at 8:47 pm by Anonymous in - Sex [+]

I am the office manager of a contruction company. We needed some extra help so my friend told me to hire a new acquaintance of ours. She has been working with me for about 6 months and is now one of my best friends. I love her to death but she is not doing her job well. My boss wants to get rid of her. He told me that he thinks she is dumber than a 3 dollar bill and he hates coming into the office when she is here. A few weeks ago my boss told me they were going to let her go in mid January when they get back from hawaii. I told my friend so that she would have time to look for a new job. She was very upset about this. She didn't know how she could get fired from "the easiest job ever". Well now my boss wants to get rid of her right away. Am I wrong to keep that information to myself this time so that she doesn't get upset again?

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December 17, 2009 at 1:43 pm by Anonymous in - Work [+]

I have recently had an affair with my neighbors husband. My husband has cheated on me me in the past and I thought this was going to make me feel better but it has not. Am I wrong for not telling him afraid this would totally kill whatever family we have left?

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December 7, 2009 at 1:31 am by Anonymous in - Family [+]

I don't do my homework till 1 or 2 in the morning... I wake up at 5 to go to school and I'm usually asleep in class. I think best at night though, when there is nothing to distract me. Am I wrong for doing my homework so late?

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December 7, 2009 at 1:26 am by WOOHOO! in - Miscellaneous [+]

I have been a huge supporter of our president since the beginning but now I am extremely angry! My brother is going back to Afghanistan. Am I wrong for being upset with our president?

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December 7, 2009 at 1:02 am by Anonymous in - Politics [+]

My husband of 7 1/2 years, Im 26, he's 29, never asks to go out with just the guys, other than a drink or two after work. I do the same with my friends from work. If either of us goes out to clubs it's always together. I trust him fully and believe he trusts me too. We've never done anything to hurt each other in any way. His friends wife is controlling, she usually never lets him out of her sight. But she went to a bachloret party with strippers, and now he feels he should be able to go to a strip club too. Well she let him go, as long as my husband went (the good guy). His friend called me personally and asked me if it was ok with me. I said sure. Honestly we watch crazier things on TV than in any strip club. I'm not worried about my husband. But I have friends who refuse to let their husbands go. And they say I am crazy for allowing it. Am I wrong? Should I be jealous? I know I make him happy and our sex life is amazing. And why do wives feel they are in charge of where their husbands go or do? Shouldn't marriage be about trust? I know many of these woman do whatever they want. I work in a mostly male enviroment- it has a bad reputation for any woman who morks there. They usually have affairs their firswt year there. Includung the women I work with.....so who are they to judge their husbands?

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December 3, 2009 at 9:45 pm by Anonymous in - Sex [+]

Is it wrong for some of these folks to not give two cents about being grammatically correct on their posts? I can understand that this is not an essay or thesis (Im not a Harvard English Professor), but geez.

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December 2, 2009 at 11:05 pm by Anonymous in - Miscellaneous [+]